Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Our Ibiza - Chapter 2: The Good, The Bad, And The Blue Spruce

When our contractor told us that he was ready to get started on our house, he wasn't kidding. In just a week a lot has happened, some of it exciting, some of it stressful, and some of it a little heartbreaking.
First, the lot had to be cleared. Of course I was looking forward to the house getting started, but I also knew that clearing the lot meant taking down an old, magnificent Blue Spruce tree. Here's a photo:

We tried to think of a bunch of ways to save this tree. We considered moving it to the back of the lot, but found that if it didn't take it could easily fall onto the neighbors. We tried to donate it to the local university to use in the landscaping on campus, but they also said it was too big and old to move and worried about it falling. We actually thought of taking it down and saving the wood and having our architect make some furniture out of it (his first love is building furniture, but it doesn't pay the rent), but he told us we would have to get it kiln dried which would mean spending thousands to get it transported and processed at the closest kiln, so we just couldn't do it. It's was over two stories high and probably at least 50 years old, but because of the proximity of it on the lot (and the fact it would be practically sitting on our front porch) we had to take it out. The neighbors were all disgusted with us, and one of them even walked down and (jokingly) told the excavation workers that they were going to hell for taking it down. I just hope there will still be a place in heaven for us since we planted four new trees at our old house.
Cutting down this tree brought back some sad memories I had from our historic home we owned five years ago. We had a big Box Elder tree on the parking strip of our almost 100 year old home. One day when Max was a newborn and one of my friends stopped by to visit, one of the branches broke off and fell just inches from her car. When we called the city to let them know, they decided to send out a specialist to check it out. He found that the tree was rotting and had to be cut down so the city wouldn't be liable for any more dropping branches. I stood on the porch with Max in the Baby Bjorn and watched them take it out when the day came, and I literally cried when they did it. Taking down a tree is the equivalent of killing any living thing in my book, and I hated to be a part of it. So, maybe I am a heartless tree killer, but like everything in life, the good comes with the bad. To lessen our guilt and to keep the neighbors from forming a lynch mob we have decided to buy and plant the biggest Blue Spruce we can afford at the back of our lot when we do the landscaping. Hope it works.
The exciting part of the process is seeing them start to dig out the basement of the house. We can finally see how the house will lay out on the lot and what our back yard will look like. Here's some more photos:

Jack at the lot before it was cleared. It used to be a garden and orchard for the neighboring house, so it had some fruit trees. We were able to keep the largest of them, a cherry. We had to take out an apricot and a plum, but they were on their last legs, so I am trying to tell myself I'm not such a terrible person.

The lot once it was cleared. Okay, maybe I am going to hell. Did I mention that we are building the most green, environmentally responsible house we can afford? Perhaps that will save us.

During the basement excavation. It's exciting to see what the house will look like, but stressful thinking that we are paying for these guys to be there. Hope they're not paid by the hour.

Monday, October 6, 2008

A Grand Day Out

There's nothing more hilarious than a three year old saying "I'd love a bit of Gorgonzola!" in a British accent. That's what Jack has been doing ever since he and Max discovered Wallace & Gromit a couple of weeks ago. Jack's favorite short is A Grand Day Out because of the robot on the moon that likes to ski.
I thought of the title of Wallace & Gromit's film when we spent our own "Grand Day Out" with some friends the other day. We went to the Children's Museum, out to lunch, and then to a couple of mom errands. We had such a fun time, and I wanted to share some photos:

Jack & Lovis having a morning snack on the porch of the German bakery. Although they are just friends, I think these two look like they could be siblings; they have similar coloring and the same big, blue eyes.

Having pizza for lunch.

Both kids fell asleep on the way home; Lovis mid-bite of her cracker. I always know they had a good time when they pass out in the car at the end of the day.


Sunday, October 5, 2008

Untied

I took this picture the other day when Jack was trying to balance while walking along a curb. He is wearing no socks because he has gotten into the annoying habit of taking both his shoes and socks off whenever we get into the car, so we have to put them back on a few times a day. Since we were quickly running into the store, I skipped the socks this time. I just loved this photo because it feels like a perfect little snapshot from childhood.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

A Perfect Evening

I just wanted to write a quick post about the absolutely fabulous evening we had last night! At least a month ago, my good friend Trish asked me what we should do for my 40th birthday. My first reaction was NOTHING because I hate surprise parties and was fearful of black balloons and a headstone shaped cake. I told Trish if she cared about me at all there would be no surprise, no cake, and something very tasteful. We ended up deciding on a dinner with twelve good friends at Sundance, and it was perfect! Great friends, great conversation, great food, and even though they did slip in a birthday panna cotta with a candle and a table of twelve singing Happy Birthday, I wouldn't have changed a thing. Here's a short video:



Thanks to Trish and everyone for sharing my birthday with me. I am incredibly lucky to have such great friends, including the ones that couldn't be there. Who could ask for anything more!

Friday, October 3, 2008

The Vice Presidential Wink-A-Thon

Heck, I think Sarah Palin would be a gosh darn great leader of the free world! Sure, she may know nothing about foreign policy, economic reform or how to answer a question directly, but does she know how to wink? You 'Betcha!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Tired

I frequent a local convince store that is right across the street from my gym because all too often in the rush to get my tired butt out the door to the gym I forget my water bottle. It looks like the photo, like any other convenience store in any other neighborhood. And like any other convenience store, it comes complete with disgruntled employees. I do believe that every single time I have been in this store there has been a group of at least three employees (really, how many people does it take to run one of these?) huddled together at the front counter either fighting with each other or talking smack about another employee. I usually find it amusing if they don't get too distracted and put off ringing up my water to finish a long, drawn out insult or scenario. I mean, the stories usually are pretty interesting. Like the other day when I again found myself without my water bottle and I went in and two women who looked like they had done some hard living in their time were talking to a greasy overweight guy about some other worker who apparently had laid on the floor the other day in the middle of her shift and had refused to get up because she was tired. They were, of course, disgusted by this, and one of the hard living ladies said "Really, she's 19, how tired could she be?" As a woman who has two young children, has just turned 40, and is up at 6:30 AM to go to the gym, all I have to say is Amen.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

The Big 40

Yes, that's right, I'm officially old. I was thinking about what it means to me today as I was standing in line at Target, and I really do think that I feel happier now than I did ten years ago, so if this is 40, I'm happy to be here. I could share a lot of great things I've learned in the past ten years, or over my long life, but since Steve has the kids and I have a two hour window to take a birthday nap, I'm gonna take it.
Speaking of Steve, if his status as best husband ever was in question, he just nailed it because he bought me this for my birthday. Who cares if you're 40 if you have a sweater this fabulous?